I know you're only being half serious here, but in all honesty, I really hope for all the best for all of the Harrimans. I can't imagine any family going through a situation more difficult than the one they face. It's gotta be hell for Chris to be away from them like that.
I was being totally and completely serious. It would have been ideal for that family to be together. If here is the best place for Avery, then here is where Chris would probably most want to be. And, I guess, put the career moves on hold while Avery continues to battle. Head coaching gigs will have to wait.
And, the fact of the matter is that we did have an opening. One for which, as it happens, we know he would have been a good fit.
The absolute most cruel part of this is, no, they probably won't wait. If he doesn't pursue this opportunity now, chances are extremely high that he may never get another shot as a Div 1 head coach. Say what you want about how much the head coaches are paid today, especially at the highest level, but the job is probably the most brutally competitive job in the world and any slip in your progress can doom your career forever.
Yes, he probably feels like he should forgo the UNM opportunity and be with his family from an emotional standpoint - any father would - but from a logical POV, he probably feels like he has no other choice than to do what he's doing.
I'm sure it's horrible...I don't envy him at all.